Swinging can given them the opportunity to grow as a couple and as individuals adults. Swinging helps ease the boredom of a long term relationship. After you experience threesome swinging and get over your hang-ups, sex with your partner can be outstanding. Swinging is what you make it. Swinging is about letting go of outdated notions about sex and relationships. It's about giving up hang-ups and allowing yourself to be completely free while allowing your lover to do the same. There are numerous ways adult people view swingers.

Maybe they just want more sexual variety by watching their lover having sex with another adult person. Maybe they really don't have a reason but know it is something they would like explore because it just make sense to do it. Threesome, for some, may be the answer. May couples deny that they want to have sex with other people and they divorced because if it.

All ages, from early twenties to seventies. If you're younger, don't be intimated by the older swinger couples. They know that want they are doing-- having sex with other consenting adults-- might not be the norms, but it is the norms for them. Swingers, men or women they are usually very down to earth people. This doesn't mean they're coarse because they use type of language or do these things, it just means they're comfortable with their sexuality.