Swinging can given them the opportunity to grow as a couple and as individuals adults. Swinging helps ease the boredom of a long term relationship. After you experience threesome swinging and get over your hang-ups, sex with your partner can be outstanding. Swinging is what you make it. Swinging is about letting go of outdated notions about sex and relationships. It's about giving up hang-ups and allowing yourself to be completely free while allowing your lover to do the same. There are numerous ways adult people view swingers. The actual term swinger get through a lot. There are countless younger couples in the lifestyle and they're starting younger and younger.

The reason vary from couples to couple but mostly it's about having sex with other people. People may have married too young and didn't get to "sow their wild oats". Maybe they were virgins when they married and have only experienced sex with their spouses. May be they have unrealized fantasies like threesomes or group sex. Maybe they just want more sexual variety by watching their lover having sex with another adult person. Maybe they really don't have a reason but know it is something they would like explore because it just make sense to do it. Threesome, for some, may be the answer. May couples deny that they want to have sex with other people and they divorced because if it.

All ages, from early twenties to seventies. If you're younger, don't be intimated by the older swinger couples. They know that want they are doing-- having sex with other consenting adults-- might not be the norms, but it is the norms for them. Swingers, men or women they are usually very down to earth people. This doesn't mean they're coarse because they use type of language or do these things, it just means they're comfortable with their sexuality. First of all, ask yourself why you to be a threesome swinger. Once you get over your hand-ups, the possibilities of what you can do and explore are endless. Things you were too uptight to try before suddenly seem like a good idea: Girl on girl, threesome, group sex. getting naked in front of strangers, exhibitionism, etc. "Swingers Lifestyle is such a heavy world. As if everything as you know it has to change once you make the decision to swing. But is it a lifestyle choice?