As a marriage and family therapist for 30 years, so I have pain, the honeymoon is over when you wake up realizing that being married to a mortal. I hope my grandchildren when they come to adulthood, will avoid the pitfalls and pain of succumbing to the myth of “happy.”
Stop blaming. Start living. It is our responsibility and our partners to feel better and heal for true love dating to leverage the relations thereby. Our partners are responsible for ourselves, but not for us. Therefore, it is useful instead of blaming our partners to put these two questions? “Why is this person in my life, what should I learn this in a good marriage, you grow.
Avoid blocking syndrome. We believe that we can correct our partners, and edit to perfection. Do not hold onto anger. Keep anger is like drinking poison and waiting for someone to die. Thoughts begin to attack constructive thoughts and actions.
They have ideas and are grateful to our partners. And often express these thoughts. When single men or women, build an emotional bank account full of positive thoughts, positive emotional exchanges that have moments of anger.
Wake up, without makeup. Since women have to wake up early in the morning with makeup, false eyelashes and all. This is not the real world. What we have to make a happy marriage is learning to be more real. What we have to make a happy marriage is to learn more and be sure of what we really are.